At this time of year, we often reflect on our accomplishments, lessons learned, gratitudes, and what’s next.
Personal Sharing
But this December, instead of looking back on the year, I find myself looking back across the years.
The question that keeps rising is: “What is the biggest change inside of me over time?”
It’s clearly a Being question, not a Doing question.
What I hear in myself is this: I don't care less, but I care about far fewer things.
Compared to my younger self, I care about the opinions of far fewer people. I am far more focused with my passion and far more selective with my efforts. I feel much more grounded in why I do what I do - and how I choose to show up.
I’m much more discerning about how I spend my time and who I spend it with.
And I savor daily experience with far more presence — not as a concept, but with embodied intention and awareness.
A small moment recently brought this into focus.
I took my daughter to the Cleveland Museum of Art to see a wonderful special exhibit (it’s such a joy to have her home from college for the holiday break). Afterward, we shared afternoon tea at the museum café.
The world seemed to slow down. Time gently stretched. I found myself soaking in the moment with all my senses — fully present. It felt much more satisfying than networking with 50 people (which I thrived on for much of my adult life).
I have changed. I have become more grounded, focused, and grateful as a person.
Invitation for Reflection
1. What is the biggest change inside of you over the years?
Note 1: This isn’t about Doing — what you’ve achieved or not. It’s about Being — how you show up to yourself, others, and the world.
Note 2: Be gentle with yourself.
2. How does that change make you feel?
3. How might it inform or inspire what comes next?
Wishing you a warm and heart-opening holiday season!
